When Should I Give Up on My Twin Flame Union?

This is a question that many consider on the Twin Flame journey, especially when there are overwhelming challenges and painful periods of separation. However, within the Teachings of Union at Twin Flames Universe, the answer might be different than you might think.

The core principle within the Teachings of Union is that your Twin Flame Union is Divinely created for you and can be yours when you heal the blocks to love in your consciousness. Jeff and Shaleia teach that separation is an illusion, stemming from unhealed wounds within yourself. Therefore, the concept of "giving up" on your true, Harmonious Union isn't really aligned with this fundamental understanding.

Instead of asking when to give up on them, the question becomes: When should I give up on the illusion of separation within myself?

The perceived need to "give up" often arises from:

• Ego's resistance to love: The ego doesn’t want you to succeed. Loving yourself and healing your wounds dissolves the ego. Ego will do anything to get you off the path of healing.

  
  

• Unhealed wounds: Feelings of unworthiness or fear of love can lead to the belief that Union is impossible. Again, these are ego-based belief systems that you can refuse to give power to. Healing is the way to Union.

  
  

• Misunderstanding the journey: Viewing the Twin Flame journey as solely about the external relationship, rather than the internal healing process. You will only be able to receive the love you have already given to yourself within your Union. Until then, your Twin Flame will continue to reflect your shared blocks to love. This is how they lovingly partner with you.

Here's why "giving up" on the Union wouldn’t make any sense:

• Eternal Bond: Your Twin Flame is your eternal counterpart, a part of your very soul. This bond cannot be broken ever, including by cord-cutting.

  
  

• Choice for Union: The Teachings of Union emphasize that Twin Flames choose as One for their Union. Any perceived separation is a result of  unloving choices and beliefs within one or both individuals. So if you choose your Union, so does your Twin Flame.

  
  

• Focus on Self-Healing: The path to Harmonious Union, according to TFU, lies in your individual journey of healing all that isn't love within yourself. As you heal and align with your Divine Self, you naturally come into greater harmony with your Twin Flame. Loving yourself is how you heal your Union.

  
  

• The Mirror: Your Twin Flame perfectly mirrors your internal state. If you're experiencing separation, it's reflecting an internal separation within you. Running from the mirror doesn’t relieve you from the triggers. Instead, why not focus on healing yourself.

  
  

• You and your Twin Flame are literally One. This means to give up on your Twin Flame is the same as giving up on yourself. 

So, instead of giving up, loving guidance suggests:

• Never give up on your healing: Continue to dedicate yourself to the Mirror Exercise and identifying and releasing any blocks to love within you. You get to feel loved and at peace every step of the way on this journey.

  
  

• Never give up on choosing love: In every moment, consciously choose love over fear, blame, and resentment, both towards yourself and your Twin Flame. By choosing love over fear, you start to reduce the amount of fearful thoughts that you experience in your own life. Peace becomes more a part of your reality.

  
  

• Never give up on your faith: Trust in the Divine plan for your Union and know that as you align with love, harmony is inevitable. Trust in the journey and that every step is laid out for you helps you to progress. The Divine is unconditionally loving you.

  
  

• Seek support: Utilize the resources and community offered by Twin Flames Universe to support your healing and understanding. It’s ok to ask for help and to receive support to help you overcome your blocks. 

The journey to Harmonious Twin Flame Union is a journey of profound self-love and spiritual awakening. Instead of focusing on when to give up on your beloved, turn your attention inward and commit to healing the illusion of separation within yourself. As you do, the harmony you seek externally will naturally unfold.

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