Twin Flame Obsession: What It Is and How to Overcome It

The Twin Flame journey is often so intense and all-consuming that it's easy to fall into a state of obsession. You might find yourself constantly checking their social media, waiting for a text, or endlessly analysing their every move.

This obsession can feel like an uncontrollable force, but it's not a sign of the connection's validity; it's just a block to your Union.

What Is Twin Flame Obsession?

Twin Flame obsession is a symptom of attachment and a lack of self-love. It is a desperate, fear-based need to control your Twin Flame's actions and the outcome of the journey.

The obsession arises from the ego's belief that you are not whole without your Twin Flame and that your happiness is dependent on their physical presence. This is a profound illusion of separation.

When you are in a state of obsession, your energy is not in a state of love. It is vibrating with anxiety, fear, and a desperate need to fill a void you believe exists within you. Since your Twin Flame is a perfect mirror, they will reflect this energy back to you, often by pulling away and creating more distance. This is not a punishment; it is a loving reflection, showing you that the block to Union is your own energetic state.

How to Overcome It

The only way to overcome Twin Flame obsession is to shift your focus from them to you. This is not about giving up on your Union; it's about reclaiming your power and surrendering to the truth that your happiness is not dependent on anything external.

You are connected to the Source of all Love within yourself. The Twin Flame journey is all about returning to that truth because that's where you will feel safe and peaceful. If you're ready to heal the obsession in your connection, here's how:

1. Acknowledge and Heal the Lack: The obsession is a symptom of a deeper, unhealed wound—a lack you feel within yourself. Use the Mirror Exercise to identify this feeling. For example, if you're obsessed with whether or not they've seen or replied to your text messages, the mirror is is probably showing you that you are "ignoring yourself" on some level and looking for attention outside yourself. Lovingly acknowledge this feeling and give yourself the attention and validation you were seeking from them.

   
   

2. Surrender to the Divine Journey: Consciously release all expectations about the timeline and the outcome of your Union. Surrender is not passive; it is an active choice to trust in God's perfect plan. When you surrender, you release the burden of needing to control, and you create the space for your Union to unfold effortlessly. Control usually comes from not feeling safe. Give yourself the feeling of safety you need and watch how trust starts to build.

   
   

3. Find Joy and Purpose in Your Own Life: Shift your energy and focus to your own passions, your Divine Mission, and your well-being. When you are truly happy and fulfilled on your own, the obsession with your Twin Flame naturally dissolves. You will begin to vibrate with the energy of wholeness or Union, which is what truly magnetises your Twin Flame to you.

   
   

Obsession is a powerful call to return to yourself. By choosing to heal the underlying lack and lovingly re-centre your life around your own peace and joy, you are not only overcoming the obsession but are also removing the very block that was preventing your Harmonious Union.

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Your Twin Flame journey is a profound and transformative experience, and I’m here to guide you along the way. Let’s work together to remove the obstacles to your Union and awaken the deeper connection that lies within you. 

Remember, your Twin Flame is your guiding light on your spiritual journey, and with the right support, you will find your way back to each other. You cannot fail.