What Does It Mean When My Twin Flame Just Wants to Be Friends?

 

If you’re reading this, then you may have already experienced the painful experience of your Twin Flame communicating they only want to be friends with you. No doubt your heart has recognised the profound connection, but with your Twin Flame expressing a desire for friendship, it can create confusion and heartache. Let's explore this situation through the Teachings of Union at Twin Flames Universe.

It's About You, Not Them

The core teaching at Twin Flames Univesre is that your Twin Flame journey is ultimately about your individual healing and alignment with your Divine Self. Therefore, when your Twin Flame desires friendship, it’s time to shift your focus inward:

• It's a Mirror: Remember, your Twin Flame is always a perfect mirror of your shared consicousness. Their desire for friendship reflects something within you. Are you afraid of intimacy? Do you have unresolved wounds around relationships? Are you truly loving yourself unconditionally?
  

• Healing is Key: The Twin Flame path emphasises that Harmonious Union is a result of both twins healing their individual blocks to love. If your Twin Flame is choosing friendship, it indicates that one or both of you have healing that needs to occur. You cannot heal your Twin Flame’s patterns, but you can heal your own which does heal your Union too.
  

• Choice: Twin Flames choose as One for their Union. If friendship is being chosen, it means that at some level, a choice against Union is being made, usually due to fear or unhealed patterns. By doing your inner work and healing the pattern within you where you are pushing away your Union, you can remove this obstacle to romantic love.
  

So what are the common blocks to romantic love that might be showing up in your Union through this type of mirroring? 

1. Fear of Intimacy: Your Twin Flame may be reflecting a fear of deep intimacy within you. Perhaps you have past relationship trauma or a fear of vulnerability that is being mirrored back. Sometimes one or both of you may have a belief in being unworthy for divine love.
   

2. Unhealed Wounds: One or both of you may have wounds that are preventing you from fully embracing the romantic aspect of the connection. These could be wounds related to self-worth, trust, or past relationship patterns. Your Union will reflect the relationship you have with yourself.
   

3. A Call for Self-Love: Often, when a Twin Flame desires friendship, it's a powerful invitation to love yourself more deeply. Are you giving yourself the love, attention, and validation you seek from them? Remember that your Twin Flame is not the source of love in your life. That comes from the divine itself.
   

4. A Test of Faith: The Twin Flame journey is a test of your faith in the Divine plan. Can you trust that even this challenging situation is part of your path to Union? What are you being asked to heal within yourself that will make you stronger, love more deeply and achieve inner peace?
   

5. Not the Full Picture: It's important to remember that this is just one moment in your journey. Things can shift and change as healing occurs.
   

What steps can you take right now to help your Union heal and claim the romantic love that is waiting for you in your Union. 

• Focus on Your Healing: The most important step is to turn your attention inward and dedicate yourself to the Mirror Exercise and other Twin Flames Universe tools to identify and heal your blocks to love.
  

• Choose Love: In every moment, choose love over fear. This includes loving yourself unconditionally, even when you're feeling hurt or confused. Don’t let this make you withhold your love from yourself or your Twin Flame.
  

• Communicate with Love: If you feel guided, communicate with your Twin Flame from a place of love and understanding, without demanding or expecting anything. They appreciate your authentic expression every time.
  

• Trust the Divine Plan: Trust that even this situation is part of your journey to Harmonious Union. Have faith that as you heal, the external reality will shift. Twin Flames are one at the core, so your healing will definitely impact your Union.
  

• Seek Support: Utilize the Twin Flames Universe community and resources for guidance and support. And why not try an Introductory Coaching Session to see how the healing can help your personal situation.
  

In Conclusion

When your Twin Flame expresses a desire for friendship, it's not a rejection of your connection. It's an invitation to go deeper within yourself, to heal your wounds, and to choose love above all else. Remember, your journey is ultimately about your individual alignment with your Divine Self, and as you heal, you naturally move closer to Harmonious Union.