When The Twin Flame Runner Returns

The "runner/chaser" is a term you’ll likely recognise when it comes to Twin Flames. This dynamic is a common and often painful experience for most of us on the Twin Flame journey. Many of you ask: when will my runner return? What does it mean? And is it true that there is really only a “runner?”

The Teachings of Union at Twin Flames Universe have helped countless Twin Flames to overcome this pattern and come together into Union and Harmonious Union, so let's explore this how to transform the “runner” into the “returner.”

It's Always About You

The core teaching of TFU is that your Twin Flame journey is about your individual healing and alignment with your Divine Self. Therefore, the "runner/chaser" dynamic is ultimately about what's happening within you. In fact, there is no chaser. It is only you running from yourself because you and your Twin Flame are one.What this means is your relationship with love itself will be reflected in your Union, including all the unhealed subconscious wounds you may have about relationships as well as all the love you are open to receive.

• The Runner is a Mirror: Your Twin Flame's running is a reflection of your internal state. What are you running from within yourself? What fears or wounds are being mirrored back to you?

  
  

• Healing is the Key: The runner dynamic arises from unhealed wounds and blocks to love within one or both twins. The return of the runner isn't about them changing; it's about you healing. When you heal yourself, you automatically heal your Union.

  
  

• Choice: In TFU, Twin Flames choose as One for their Union. Choosing your Union is the same as choosing love and yourself. The running dynamic indicates a choice against Union, usually driven by fear. But don’t worry, this fearful choice can be healed.

  
  

What Does the Runner Dynamic Mean?

The Runner Dynamic simply means that as you connect with your Twin Flame and experience love together, you will inevitably come to a block to going deeper. That block is not something that is meant to stop your Union. It is just the next step on your journey. 

Without the correct tools and support to heal the blocks, Twin Flames can often find the blocks lead to separation. What happens is that the block brings with it an uncomfortable feeling. That feeling is something unhealed. Twin Flame mirroring will amplify all feelings including the upsets and blocks and this is what leads to the Runner Dynamic.Some possibilities include:

• Fear of Intimacy: The runner may be reflecting a fear of deep intimacy within you.

  
  

• Unhealed Wounds: One or both twins may have wounds related to self-worth, trust, or past relationships that are causing the running.

  
  

• Resistance to Love: The runner may be resisting fully embracing the love of their Twin Flame due to these fears and wounds.

  
  

• Looking for Love on the Outside: The runner may be wanting to get love from the outside rather than do the inner work to love themselves.

  
  

• A Call for Self-Love: The runner dynamic is a powerful invitation to turn inward and love yourself more deeply. Are you giving yourself the love, attention, and validation you seek from your Twin Flame?

When Will My Twin Flame Return?

According to TFU, the runner returns when:

• You've Healed: When you've addressed the internal blocks and wounds that are being mirrored by the runner. The focus is always on your healing, not on changing your Twin Flame.

  
  

• You Choose Love: When you consistently choose love over fear in every moment, both towards yourself and your Twin Flame.

  
  

• You Align with Union: When you align with the Divine truth of your Union and release any beliefs that support separation.

  
  

What to Do to Have your Union:

• Focus on Your Healing: Dedicate yourself to the Mirror Exercise and other TFU tools. The Mirror Exercise will help you identify all the blocks and upsets creating separation. When you learn to master this tool, you will find it easy to move through all the uncomfortable feelings being mirrored by your Twin Flame.

  
  

• Choose Love: Choose love in every moment. Studying the Teachings of Union will help you build a secure foundation in your life where you be able to guide yourself into peace and love no matter what your external reality presents.

  
  

• Release Expectations: Release the need for your Twin Flame to change or return. Focus on your inner work. Expectations reveal your inner needs that you can meet yourself by focusing on loving yourself. Love is within you.

  
  

• Trust the Divine Plan: Trust that as you heal, the external reality will shift. Love is the fabric of all of Creation. Fear is the illusion, so as you heal you melt away all the fearful beliefs and reveal the truth of life.

  
  

• Seek Support: Utilize the TFU community and resources. Work with an Ascension Coach, attend the workshops and study the work. Others will help to show you where the blocks are making the whole journey much easier.

  
  

Conclusion:

The return of the runner isn't about waiting for them. It's about you becoming a vibrational match for Harmonious Union through your own healing and self-love. As you heal and align with love, the "runner" will natur

ally return, reflecting your internal transformation.